Love and Relationship
Sometimes it is unfortunate that why people we want to love, choose not to love us back. I strongly believe that we all have a match in this word but need to wait until we can get a serious relationship with us and will last. When one attempt to a relationship fails, it simply meant to be. If you are affected with the pain because of the relationship, always remember you can recover it. This could be easily dealt with if only our emotions are not evolved when we start to feel strongly for someone but more often than not ,the heart rules strongly over our head.
If someone we love and don’t like / want us anymore, okay it is important we should learn to give them a freedom to find their own happiness. So, this is the perfect time for us to realize the pain that our life should not be independent on someone else’s presence. We are still exist without them, we strive to be happy at all times without them. Remember that at one point in our life, we should stop missing them and start thinking what we have been missing because of them. It seems, we are missing the opportunity to be happy with someone else. When someone who will not consciously avoid us but choose to be with us. Someone who will accept us what we are and who we are. Someone will not just, just listen when we say “I LOVE YOU” or “I LIKE YOU” but someone who will say it too and love you even more. I belive that love doesn’t make people wait. If we really love someone then we should not play w/ time and promises. If we don’t love a person anymore, then we just have to be honest about it, even if hurts.
Sometimes if we love a person but they are not or vice versa, it is not comfortable even it hurts. When you are on this stage or part, let the time to decide on what kind of people that God’s gives us. Waiting is the option that most people take but sometimes they refuse to accept when it is already obvious that they are just waiting in vain for someone who is never going to return to them. Let us always remember that sometimes, we have to use our mind over our hearts, when our feelings get too strong. When we think w/ our hearts, loving means wanting to hold on, when what we have to do it let go.
Honestly, I believe that there is always room for forgiveness for those who sincerely ask for it. What is important is that we forgive those who have caused us pain. What is important is we feel to those we love. Let us always remember that only the truth can set us free from the bitterness of the past and the pain that hatred brings. Only forgiveness can bring us the real peace of mind that we searching for. And in the end, only love can spell the diffence between winning or losing the people who truly mean a lot to us.
