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May 23, 2008

Online Dating Service

Filed under: Online Dating Services — iChat Media Solutions @ 7:44 am

Searching in the internet to find a partner or date with. I recommend you to register free membership and if the online dating site is legitimate then post or upload your photo and find members online.

When selecting a free online dating service, take a few minutes to do a search. There are tons of them out there. I always say to select one of the top 10. You will find that they have the most amount of members and can usually find a quality site this way.

I recommend that you don’t post an online dating photo until you join and do a search on the dating site for current members. One way to see if a site is legitimate is to see if their are alot of current members with photos. If you notice that 80% of the members haven’t logged on in over a month, you will probably not find a match there!

A New Dating Network

Filed under: Speed Dating — iChat Media Solutions @ 7:31 am

Many people feel the best way to meet people is by an introduction through their friends. But what about their extended network?

What if you had access to everyone they knew, and could introduce yourself much the same way that you do online? ~more~
Cherie Burbach is the author of the poetry books The Difference Now, A New Dish, and Father’s Eyes. She used her experience with meeting her husband online to pen At the Coffee Shop, a humorous look at the world of Internet dating. Cherie is the Dating Feature Writer for Suite101.

Welcome to my Blog! THE CRAIGSLIST DATING EXPERIENCE

Filed under: Personal Experience — iChat Media Solutions @ 7:28 am

Ever considered online dating? What’s been holding you back? Worried about what your friends and family might think? Think that people that date online are losers, aliens (with 3 heads), unattractive, or socially inept? Oh I know..maybe you’ve heard one of those nightmarish match.com stories about a girl that chatted online for 2 months with what appeared to be an absolutely “dreamy” guy, met him out at a bar, only to find out that OH NO! HE WAS NOT THE GUY IN THE PICTURES!! GASP!

Ok..that sucks for her..but life is about risk isn’t it? About being proactive? What if by some miracle of events the earth’s gravitational pull was able to attract and bring together two souls via the internet? Two souls that had been missing each other every morning on the 6 train subway platform, or on lazy Sunday afternoons at Pinkberry, or every Wed morning at the light on 34th and 2nd? And not just two souls people but two souls that were destined to be together FOREVER AND EVER AND EVER! Dare I say…SOULMATES!

Alright..in an attempt at poking fun at our love obsessed society I think I really just made myself nauseous. You don’t really believe in this soulmate thing do you? Come on! There are like over 6 billion people on the planet. Do you really think there’s just one person out there for you? Call me jaded (everyone else does) but this is sooooooo not realistic. People DO meet and feel some type of connection, it’s called LUST! Sometimes it develops further into a friendship, and perhaps marriage and children. If you are thinking that the universe is going to bring this “one-of-a-kind”, “custom-made”, perfect human being to you then I have some swamp land I’d like to show you first thing tomorrow morning!

I used to be just like you. Thinking that if I were just patient enough Mr. Right would come knocking on my door, a perfect chiseled 6′4″, dressed in Armani and wearing my favorite BOND cologne. Damn that scent just does something to me! Sorry..I digress. Anway,by the time you reach your mid-thirties reality starts to set in and rear it’s ugly head. You may also start to recall some of the scientific principles, theories, and laws that you learned in school. Remember the lowest common denominator? Whoever thought it would come in handy. I was just at the supermarket purchasing hot dogs and the count for the buns were 12 count and the hot dogs were 8. So glad I was paying attention in class that day! Sorry..I digress again. My overall favorite though would have to be The Law of Probability.

Probability is the likelihood or chance that something is the case or will happen. Probability theory is used extensively in areas such as statistics, mathematics, science and philosophy to draw conclusions about the likelihood of potential events and the underlying mechanics of complex systems.Wikipedia® is a registered trademark of the Wikimedia Foundation, Inc.,

5 Ways to Master the Art of Romantic Dating

Filed under: Dating Advice — iChat Media Solutions @ 7:13 am

By Hunter Skye
Dating, like Fine Art, comes in many memorable forms. In creating a masterpiece of fine art, the artist does not seek to impress the viewer, only to express his or her innermost feelings. The artist may have felt romantic or inspired while in the process of creating a masterpiece, as Leonardo DaVinci with his timeless Mona Lisa. Romantic dates become memorable when they are encountered and spontaneous in design. In other words, a surprise can make the difference between just another night out, and an evening to be remembered. Begin creating your romantic date by discovering the depth of your lover’s passion for the multitude of romantic expressions in his or her life. Here are 5 ways to master the art of romantic dating.

1. Theatre tickets for that special night out on the town. There are many great plays, musicals and movies to be enjoyed. Choose one that closely matches your lover’s interests. Spend some time researching the history of the theatre itself and the story behind the play or movie. Don’t spend too much time reading critiques of the show, as they are often jaded by the repetitive viewing and egos of the critics. Sharing a conversation about the theatre itself or the background of the performance or movie sends a strong message that you and your lover share a common interest.

2. Plan an unplanned adventure by spending a romantic evening at a great hotel. Classic hotels can be wonderful places for a romantic evening. They have earned their reputation for exquisite grandeur by offering the finest in amenities and service. They always feature the highest quality restaurants and cozy rooms outfitted for comfortable relaxation. Dine in or enjoy the finest foods before retiring, exchanging romantic conversation throughout the evening. Be careful not to allow work or family to intrude on your evening or else it may spoil the mood.

3. Express yourself to your love with the latest in hot Fashions. A surprise gift from the hottest boutique around will show your spontaneity and your carefree perspective on life. This may take some research but there are great fashion sites waiting to be discovered on the Internet. Look for the hottest trends that may release your lover’s inhibitions.

4. Music moves the world and can create romantic moods when tuned you’re your lover’s passions. Music should never be forgotten when it comes to planning a romantic evening together. You should be aware of your lover’s musical interests and select just the right music to suit the evening. But, be careful in making your selection, because the music is always attached to memories, good and bad, which can trigger a mood change in an instant.

5. Wines make great gifts and will always accomplish a romantic date. Don’t worry if you’re not an expert on selecting the right wine for the evening. There are many great wine lovers’ web sites that provide advice on wine selection, tasting, and service. If you carefully choose just the right wine to match your lover’s passions, and share a glass or two after a romantic date is a sure way to win the brass ring of dating. It goes without saying that romantic dating requires a commitment on your behalf to your lover’s passions. That’s what true romance is all about and quite often, it is possible to forge a lasting romantic relationship which will definitely yield immeasurable rewards.

So go ahead and start you masterpiece of fine romantic dating today. Make it memorable by making it just right to suit your lover’s passions, and you will be rewarded.

Hunter Skye writes about romance, dating, the movies and spiritual fulfillment. Visit PillowDating.com, http://www.pillowdating.com, for a collection of informative articles about Online Dating.

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Dating Issues. You May be Ruining Your Dates Before They Even Happen

Filed under: Dating Advice — iChat Media Solutions @ 7:02 am

Dating Issues. You May be Ruining Your Dates Before They Even Happen

Let’s face it. We don’t all fall in “love at first sight.” No, most of us find ourselves surfing through the dating pool during at least one point in our lives, and often during multiple points.

It is, of course, completely normal to feel apprehensive before a date, but a few butterflies in your stomach and sweaty palms aside, your attitude and beliefs about the date could actually form its outcome.

Here’s how it works: the more you hold on to fears, regrets or assumptions (such as that the date will be lousy or you’re sure the person isn’t right for you anyway), the more those things will come true. So if you meet your date with your arms full of your emotional baggage from your past relationships, well your date will probably start carrying some of it for you, and your greatest fears will come true: you will not have found your prince, or princess, charming.

The events and feelings in your last relationship do not determine those in your next one unless you hold on and believe they will.

So if you have a date planned right now, and you’re worrying about it, analyzing it and coming up with multiple reasons why it’s not right for you, your self-doubt and fears about dating may be sabotaging your personal life.

In contrast, if you keep an open mind and release your past emotional baggage, such as your fears of being rejected or betrayed, you will stop the cycle. You will stop attracting more of that into your life.

You should let go of wanting to change what was and then hold in your mind what it is that you would like to have. Let go of the thoughts and feelings that say you cannot or should not have it. Also, review your past relationships and figure out what worked best, then allow yourself to be open to more of that. Then simply get back out there and keep letting go.

So set your sights high. Imagine the date you’d love to have, and the person you’d love to have it with. When you’re open to releasing, you’ll be amazed at what, and who, is attracted into your life.

So…You’ve decided to try internet dating…

Filed under: Internet Dating — iChat Media Solutions @ 6:41 am



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…and why not? Everyone’s doing it now. I mean, almost every single (unattached) person I know has tried internet dating at least once. There are perks to internet dating, as well as some things that one should look out for, but all in all, I would honestly say that the pros far outweigh the cons.

My name is Nicolette Arden, and I’m a seasoned online dater. Though I’m no longer dating online (after 4 years, I found the love of my life there, a nice normal human being), I learned some extremely valuable things in the process of finding him, and I’m going to share them with you.

There are definitely some things that only a seasoned internet dating pro would be able to tell you about online dating. Though it’s mostly a game of common sense, I’m here to tell you about the do’s and don’t’s of online dating…the things that aren’t so common sense.

So go grab a java (I’ll wait), and read on. I’m going to tell you some of my scary stories (good ones too), and hope that they help you navigate your way through the internet dating maze.

Here’s to Happy Dating!

Nicolette.

Copyright 2005 Nicolette Arden All Rights Reserved

The Date Went Great – Now How Do You Make That First Move?

Filed under: Online Dating Guide — iChat Media Solutions @ 6:34 am

If You Like Someone But Don’t Know How to Take it Further…
Read This Guide to Making The First Move!”

Step 1: Read the signals Before initiating any kind of move, look for body language clues such as prolonged eye contact to help you work out whether you’ll get a positive response. A woman may be more willing than usual to expose certain areas of her body like her neck or wrists. She may touch you, or display self-grooming gestures. A man may exhibit more animalistic signals or ownership gestures, to impress a potential mate. These may include resting an arm on the back of her chair, puffing out his chest or widening his shoulders. Both sexes may engage in ‘mirroring’, which is subconsciously copying the actions of the other person’s body positions.

Step 2: Conversation If they find someone attractive, men and women won’t necessarily say what they’re really thinking. Instead of listening to what is being said, concentrate on how it is being said. If he says; ‘I’m interested in art’. He may mean I am interested in you” If she says; ‘What’s your favourite surrealist painting?’ She may mean; ‘Are you genuinely interested?’ If he says; ‘I love Dali’s The Persistence of Memory’. He may mean; ‘I’m trying really hard here because you’re hot’. If she says; ‘I’ve got that on my bedroom wall’. She may mean; ‘I want you to see it’.

Step 3: If the woman is making the first move The male form is majestic, enticing and readily available. Approach with free abandon and curious hands. Be a predator. Remove any unnecessary items of clothing. The only potential problem that could arise will occur when choosing topics of conversation. Don’t mention ex-boyfriends, health problems, or your imminent desire for babies.

Step 4: If the man is making the first move The female form is mysterious, enticing and notoriously difficult to get hold of. Approach with caution. Certain parts of the body should not be touched initially, like the breasts or bum. Instead, try lightly touching less intimate areas of the body – such as the upper arm, or the outer leg nearest to you.

Step 5: The kiss If they haven’t rejected your advances so far, then you can start to feel more confident about stealing a kiss. For specific tips on kissing, watch ‘How to kiss someone passionately’. It takes guts to go for a kiss, and if you are feeling out of your comfort zone, try to relax, as lack of confidence is rarely attractive to the opposite sex. Maintain eye contact, lean in and pause when your faces are close but not touching, to allow the other person space to escape or, hopefully, lean in too.

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A In depth Guide to the Romantic Getaways in Washington

Filed under: Online Dating Guide — iChat Media Solutions @ 6:29 am

Treat everyday as Valentine’s Day. So Romeo, never have second thoughts on relishing time with Juliet. Going on trips will not only do the trick for you two to be closer, intimate and feel at
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Online Dating Sites : part 3

Filed under: Dating Sites — iChat Media Solutions @ 6:20 am

PlentyofFish

PlentyOfFish started as a way for Markus Frind to teach himself ASP, but quickly marched itself up to become a very large dating site, with nearly 600,000 unique monthly U.S. visitors (Comscore) and claims of 500 million monthly page views (Comscore says only 118 million, in the U.S.). Its look and feel is rough around the edges, but it gives users what they want: the ability to browse personal profiles free of charge. PlentyOfFish also crafted a simple bulletin board system that allows users to freely chat, vent frustrations, and offer up dating advice. The site is doing very well financially.

Poddater

We wrote about Poddater in December 2005. The basic idea is to allow people to create profile videos and allow others to download them and view them. With a bit of a stretch, they also assume people will download these to their video iPod or other video device and review them there. It is otherwise a fairly standard view profile/contact user type site. Users can browse via location, age, and tags. When you find someone you’re interested in you can message them or just admire from afar by subscribing to their RSS feed. Note: a lot of the profiles don’t have videos, and our view is that Poddater is too niche to succeed.

Prescription4Love

We wrote about this one last week. Prescription4Love is a niche site devoted to people facing the stigma of special conditions, such as deafness, HIV, or obesity. It helps members find a better romantic match by allowing them to be open about their conditions with potential partners while maintaining anonymity until users trust each other. Overall, the site’s search feature does the job for finding people in your area by personal traits and certain conditions, but lacks the visual customization of the profile that could be a useful fill-in for the lack of a photo. Commenters have also suggested that search for multiple condition be allowed.

RateOrDate

RateOrDate is a meta-dating-search site that features couple ratings, singles event listings, and a dating site directory. Users can use the directory to find the dating site that most closely fits their needs. A Google maps mashup lets daters can find singles events in their areas. Finally, users can rate potential couple comparability based on photos and a short blurb. They also have a good blog following dating site trends. Overall we found the site to be a bit confusing and lacking in much actual utility.

VerbDate

VerbDate is a new dating site, launched in March, that adds voice to the usual online dating experience via Skype. Verbdate has the usual user profiles with tags, but incorporates Flickr photo albums and allows users to not only email and IM, but initiate a Skype call by “winking” at each other. All-in-all, VerbDate allows the greatest amount of interaction while remaining physically separated. The site only has 117 profiles, however, and has some negative reviews. It’s very young, though, and needs time to fully bake.

Wikia Personals

Wikia Personals has yet to launch, but aims to create a free global personals page. Discussion so far is geared towards a site that allows users to search through personal profiles based on fields such as language, sex, religion, etc. Stay tuned for some more developments from this community created site. Our previous Wikia posts are here, and our podcast interview with CEO Gil Penchina is here.