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May 14, 2008

Being a Single

Filed under: Singles — iChat Media Solutions @ 8:31 am

Are you still a single? Being a single person doesn’t have any commitment or dating with other person. Doesn’t have to bother in your mind regarding love life, don’t have problem, always happy and enjoy. Why a single person does is always happy? It’s because he/she don’t need to think the time for love life when a person is focus on career than have a love life.

A person have a relationship with other when they got a problem either a boyfriend/girlfriend has another commitment / relationship, one of them will be affected and always crying and grounded. Some people who affected with the relationship problem will commit a crime (suicide).

It is important to person being a single than to commit relationship, but it depends a person if he/she ready to go on a relationship but one thing you should know is don’t give your all time to your partner if you are not ready for married. If you are still single, just enjoy the day and night and also career first.

“The Date” That Pushed Me Into Epiphany

Filed under: Singles — iChat Media Solutions @ 6:26 am

Years ago, a childhood friend of mine decided he wanted to fix me up with his doctor friends.

He called me a bunch of times always prepared with the hard sell of why I should date a particular colleague of his. After hearing all the vague stats like the car he drove, where he went to medical school and other fluff, I would inevitably ask about the guy’s taste in music. My friend’s inevitable response (spoken with irritation): “I don’t know. That’s not important. You can ask him when he calls you tonight. I already gave him your number.”

At the time, I believed that two people needed to know and like the same music to get along. It helps, but I’ve learned there’s more to it than that.

When I first spoke with this doctor, it didn’t seem fair or polite to talk only about music with him (I’m not nearly as gracious now). So, I justified scheduling a date to get more information about his music sensibilities. And, since he came highly recommended, how bad could the date be?

This was the last time I let this friend or any others set me up with a “music unknown.”

Our one conversation had me believing that this man was fairly cool and interested in music, after briefly hearing about his affinity for 80’s rock bands (later to learn he meant Def Leppard and Bon Jovi, not The Jam or The Cure). I figured I’d let him fill in the rest of his music preferences during the walk in the park we’d planned to take. Only, I didn’t need the walk to get the picture. The moment we met and I walked into his apartment I got it.

Everything about this guy was slick, from the black lacquered furniture with gold beveled edges to his hair. I scanned the shimmery apartment and shaggy carpets hoping to spot anything resembling unique character. The apartment was decorated like bad corporate housing. I suspected I was doomed to an afternoon of boredom. My date didn’t let me down.

As the date continued, I probed him to talk more about music, but I guess we’d already covered that base. While I do remember his bad style, I can’t remember one interesting thing he said to me that day. His personality matched his taste in music. It was completely one-dimensional.

I excused myself from the date as fast as I could. I spent the entire drive home muttering to myself that I’d never again be set up by a friend, nor would I go on another date, without first getting (and paying attention to) the complete music picture.

As much as this date sucked, it caused my first epiphany confirming that music defines personality and should determine my dating decisions.

The day after this date, I started my research project, blandly titled for the next long while, “my music theory.”

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April 14, 2008

Meeting with pickup lines

Filed under: Dating Articles, Singles — iChat Media Solutions @ 10:07 am

Most people use some pickup lines to start a conversation with the opposite sex. Most people use some cheesy lines to get name, phone number or a date but that is not a good idea. To start a good conversation is to have a best pickup lines, pickup lines that are comments and a sincere questions. This will draw the person to talk to you and it might give you her name and number. Pickup lines serves as an icebreaker to start conversation with a stranger, so whether you are looking for a chat or wants to have a date. There are some pickup lines you can get but it is better to have your own.

Remember pickup lines are serves as an icebreaker to start conversation, through this you can get the words flowing. To start, if she is near to you comment on an item that you both share in your surroundings or if there is something that the person is or has that truly intrigues you, simply use that as a conversation starter. Sometime a look is all you need when faced with a person you find attractive, a smile is the best way. You may not know the person will start a conversation with you instead. Hello with a smile can be equally effective and with a follow-up word or phrase like:”You are beautiful” or “How are you?”