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July 31, 2009

How to pick up women online

Filed under: Dating Advice — iChat Media Solutions @ 8:23 am

When you want to know how to pick up women online, you have to pick your battles carefully. Because there are tens of thousands of profiles on hundreds of sites, making online dating more of a maze than an easily digestable thing.

In fact, the vast majority of men CAN’T tell the forrest from the trees anymore: when to message a woman, when NOT to message her, what to pay attention to?

The result: they WASTE countless hours doing NOTHING online.

Wasting time while meeting women online is more deceptive than it sounds: time flies by when you’re easily distracted, and I’d like to give you 3 time SAVING tips that will PREVENT you from losing focus and doing what you came there to do in the first place, which is meeting interesting women.

How To Pick Up Women Online Tip #1: Only One Photo, Is a No-No
There are truckloads full of women who only upload ONE, single photo and put it on their profile, and an equal amount of men sending them messages. And those men are all, simple and plain, as smart as my shoe size.

Because when a woman only uploads ONE photo of herself for the entire planet to see, off course she’ll upload the most stunning photo of herself she can find, probably the best one ever made if she wants to meet a man.

Why?

Think about it: if you can only fire one shot at the enemy when you’re at war, off course you’ll fire the most state of the art assault rifle you can find and not a near zero result musket that shoots blanks. A woman will upload a photo that shows her from the best angle.

Do you understand what this means?

It means she can only DISAPPOINT in real life, because in real life, sooner or later the world WON’T show her from the best angle possible.

When a woman has MULTIPLE photos on her profile on the other hand, you can COMPARE the good, the bad and the ugly and you’ll have a pretty sound idea of what she REALLY looks like.

When that doesn’t disappoint, good for you, you can go ahead and meet her without worrying too much about how she looks.

Women with several photos tend to NOT disappoint because you can compare, so avoid breaking your own heart because that one, single photo was a misrepresentation of who she truly is.

May 23, 2008

5 Ways to Master the Art of Romantic Dating

Filed under: Dating Advice — iChat Media Solutions @ 7:13 am

By Hunter Skye
Dating, like Fine Art, comes in many memorable forms. In creating a masterpiece of fine art, the artist does not seek to impress the viewer, only to express his or her innermost feelings. The artist may have felt romantic or inspired while in the process of creating a masterpiece, as Leonardo DaVinci with his timeless Mona Lisa. Romantic dates become memorable when they are encountered and spontaneous in design. In other words, a surprise can make the difference between just another night out, and an evening to be remembered. Begin creating your romantic date by discovering the depth of your lover’s passion for the multitude of romantic expressions in his or her life. Here are 5 ways to master the art of romantic dating.

1. Theatre tickets for that special night out on the town. There are many great plays, musicals and movies to be enjoyed. Choose one that closely matches your lover’s interests. Spend some time researching the history of the theatre itself and the story behind the play or movie. Don’t spend too much time reading critiques of the show, as they are often jaded by the repetitive viewing and egos of the critics. Sharing a conversation about the theatre itself or the background of the performance or movie sends a strong message that you and your lover share a common interest.

2. Plan an unplanned adventure by spending a romantic evening at a great hotel. Classic hotels can be wonderful places for a romantic evening. They have earned their reputation for exquisite grandeur by offering the finest in amenities and service. They always feature the highest quality restaurants and cozy rooms outfitted for comfortable relaxation. Dine in or enjoy the finest foods before retiring, exchanging romantic conversation throughout the evening. Be careful not to allow work or family to intrude on your evening or else it may spoil the mood.

3. Express yourself to your love with the latest in hot Fashions. A surprise gift from the hottest boutique around will show your spontaneity and your carefree perspective on life. This may take some research but there are great fashion sites waiting to be discovered on the Internet. Look for the hottest trends that may release your lover’s inhibitions.

4. Music moves the world and can create romantic moods when tuned you’re your lover’s passions. Music should never be forgotten when it comes to planning a romantic evening together. You should be aware of your lover’s musical interests and select just the right music to suit the evening. But, be careful in making your selection, because the music is always attached to memories, good and bad, which can trigger a mood change in an instant.

5. Wines make great gifts and will always accomplish a romantic date. Don’t worry if you’re not an expert on selecting the right wine for the evening. There are many great wine lovers’ web sites that provide advice on wine selection, tasting, and service. If you carefully choose just the right wine to match your lover’s passions, and share a glass or two after a romantic date is a sure way to win the brass ring of dating. It goes without saying that romantic dating requires a commitment on your behalf to your lover’s passions. That’s what true romance is all about and quite often, it is possible to forge a lasting romantic relationship which will definitely yield immeasurable rewards.

So go ahead and start you masterpiece of fine romantic dating today. Make it memorable by making it just right to suit your lover’s passions, and you will be rewarded.

Hunter Skye writes about romance, dating, the movies and spiritual fulfillment. Visit PillowDating.com, http://www.pillowdating.com, for a collection of informative articles about Online Dating.

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Dating Issues. You May be Ruining Your Dates Before They Even Happen

Filed under: Dating Advice — iChat Media Solutions @ 7:02 am

Dating Issues. You May be Ruining Your Dates Before They Even Happen

Let’s face it. We don’t all fall in “love at first sight.” No, most of us find ourselves surfing through the dating pool during at least one point in our lives, and often during multiple points.

It is, of course, completely normal to feel apprehensive before a date, but a few butterflies in your stomach and sweaty palms aside, your attitude and beliefs about the date could actually form its outcome.

Here’s how it works: the more you hold on to fears, regrets or assumptions (such as that the date will be lousy or you’re sure the person isn’t right for you anyway), the more those things will come true. So if you meet your date with your arms full of your emotional baggage from your past relationships, well your date will probably start carrying some of it for you, and your greatest fears will come true: you will not have found your prince, or princess, charming.

The events and feelings in your last relationship do not determine those in your next one unless you hold on and believe they will.

So if you have a date planned right now, and you’re worrying about it, analyzing it and coming up with multiple reasons why it’s not right for you, your self-doubt and fears about dating may be sabotaging your personal life.

In contrast, if you keep an open mind and release your past emotional baggage, such as your fears of being rejected or betrayed, you will stop the cycle. You will stop attracting more of that into your life.

You should let go of wanting to change what was and then hold in your mind what it is that you would like to have. Let go of the thoughts and feelings that say you cannot or should not have it. Also, review your past relationships and figure out what worked best, then allow yourself to be open to more of that. Then simply get back out there and keep letting go.

So set your sights high. Imagine the date you’d love to have, and the person you’d love to have it with. When you’re open to releasing, you’ll be amazed at what, and who, is attracted into your life.